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  • Divorce Support PLUS
    Helping family member prevent or prepare for, maneuver through, and thrive after troubled relations, separation and divorce.

  • How To Love Your Kids More Than You Hate That Man
    How To Love Your Kids More Than You Hate That Man is a book about parenting, decisions, pain and destruction.

  • Parenting Time
    ParentingTime.net provides an online custody calendar that allows you to easily schedule and track parenting time as well as monitor compliance with your custody arrangement. Often just monitoring compliance is enough to cause a change for the better.

  • Surviving Divorce: Dr. Reena Sommer & Associates
    Dr. Reena Sommer & Associates are internationally recognized divorce consultants specializing in divorce coaching, custody disputes and paren-child reunification programs.

  • Child Access Center
    The Child Access Center is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization made up of parents, consultants, educators, and other professionals who are familiar with the separation and divorce process.

  • Children & Divorce: Custody, Visitation & Child Support:
    The court makes the final decision, thus assuming full responsibility in order to permanently safeguard the child against acute or chronic feelings of guilt. In most states the court will consider the child's wishes according to his or her age. In a situation involving more than one child, experts feel that it is usually best to keep all siblings together with respect to the custody arrangements. Divorce splits the bond of husband and wife, and custody splits the bond of parenting. A custody dispute is more likely to be more difficult than the divorce itself, because the bond of parenting is typically stronger than that of marriage. Most importantly, each and every family is unique, with very distinctive needs and desires that must be kept at the forefront of any and all considerations.

  • Children & Divorce: The Children's Perspective on Divorce:
    Sometimes it can be beneficial to look at things through "the eyes of a child." This helps to give the parent some perspective on how the child is interpreting or absorbing the change. Young children do feel the changes that are going on in their environment. They are aware of the changes that are taking place between their parents and how they react to each other. They also see how these changes are affecting their own lifestyle. They are disturbed by not being able to be with both parents on a daily basis. They often are dissatisfied with shared custody or visitation schedules and are insecure in their environment.

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages:
    How your children adjust is directly related to how you as the parent are adjusting to the divorce. Nevertheless, the way the family operates can be quite different according to the age, gender, and number of children in the family. Many of the children will react differently according to the support they get from their parents, how much tension there is in the family structure, and how the visitation is affecting the children. The age at onset of the divorce can also be a factor when dealing with how the children will react to divorce. At different ages, children react differently

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: 11/18 Years (Early-Late Adolescence):
    Early Adolescence: At this stage, children are becoming more abstract thinkers. They are beginning to develop and discover their own identities. Children are now starting to move away from the security of the home. It's not so much a time of rebellion, but a time of exploration. The focus of their lives, no longer on the home and parents, it is now on peers. The adolescent is very aware of what is going on in his or her parent's lives. Not only are they aware of what surrounds them, but they also are very critical about the situation. Most of the time they will not accept divorce as an answer.

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: 18 Months/ 3 Years (Toddlers):
    This is the age when children are starting to develop their own individual personalities. They realize that they are separate entities from their parents. At this age children are also very talkative, and they are very interested in environment exploration. Independence is being recognized.

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: 3/5 years (Pre-schoolers):
    Children at this age are beginning to know and explore a great deal of their environment. They are learning an enormous amount of new words and their level of thinking is becoming more complex. They believe that they are in total control of their environment, which can pose a problem for parents who want a divorce. The child may feel as though they are responsible for the divorce and if this is the case, they feel no power in controlling the outcome.

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: 6/11 (Elementary School Years):
    At this age children are introduced to an ever increasing amount of peer interactions, and they may begin to become a little distant. For early elementary school children, the onset of divorce can be a very difficult obstacle to overcome. As the children get older, hopefully they begin to realize that their parents did not abandon them. They will only realize this if the parents are open in talking with the children. Certainly elementary school children feel extreme loss when a divorce occurs, but it is not impossible for the parents to rebuild the child's sense of security. Children interact with an ever increasing amount of new people and they may come home with controversial questions about certain issues concerning the divorce. Typically a child's only wish at this age is for parents to reunite, and they may attempt to accomplish this task on their own.

  • Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: Birth to 18 Months (Infancy):
    One of the most important developmental stages that people go through in life is the developmental stage known as trust. This is one of the first things infants begin to learn. It is very important because infants are dependent on their parents, and the dependancy continues to strengthen throughout the parent-child relationship. These bonds need to be formed in order for the children to feel a sense of physical comfort and to minimize fear about the future. The amount of time spent with the children determines the formation of bonds. It is not a given that a child will develop these very important trusting bonds with the parents, but it is very critical that the parents actively pursue establishing these bonds in order for their children to properly develop emotionally as they mature.

  • Co-Parenting
    Divorce and Child Custody: Co-Parenting Agreement, Co-Parenting Plans, Joint Legal Custody, Joint Physical Custody, Divorce Terminology, Holiday Guidelines, Divorce Court Procedures, Preparing for Divorce, Marriage.

  • Dads Against the Divorce Industry
    DA*DI is an organization devoted to reinstating the role and valuation of Fatherhood and the traditional American family.

  • DadsDivorce
    Resource for divorced and divorcing dads seeking to maximize their role in their children's lives. Divorce guide, expert answers, legal statutes, judge ratings and more.

  • Divorce and Children
    A coping resource for parents and children alike.

  • Divorce and Kids
    Divorce and effects on kids children teenagers parents family.

  • Divorce Education
    The Institute provides educational services in three of the essential areas involved in the divorce process: the emotional, the legal and the financial. Our aim is to help adults and children move through the entire separation and divorce process without long term consequences.

  • Divorce Help for Women
    This site is dedicated to helping women get the best outcome from their divorce. Not only can you survive, but you can even thrive in it's aftermath and build a successful new chapter in your life.

  • Divorce Info
    Online resource equivalent to a 700-page book. Organized so that you can quickly find the straightforward, practical information you need. Includes valuable information on dealing with children through a divorce or separation.

  • Divorce Resource Center
    Are you facing an unwanted divorce? Just say "No" to the divorce. Get hope, courage and direction here.

  • Divorce Room
    Divorce room's hosts have been through divorce and provide (along with other visitors to the room) resources and practical suggestions for surviving the rubble.

  • Divorce Solutions
    Offering a new and unique alternative to adversarial divorce

  • Divorce Step
    A website offering consultation, support and training to those dealing with separation, divorce, single parenting and family issues.

  • Divorce Strategy for Men and Women
    Your guide through the divorce maze. Discover how to reduce legal fees, stay out of court, maintain your parenting rights and find a light at the end of the tunnel.

  • DivorceSupport.Com
    - An online resource for parents facing the challenges of divorce and tips and guidelines for supporting children during the difficult first years. Includes information on such pertinent issues as child support and custody.

  • Effects of Divorce on Children
    Article details the reactions of toddlers, preschoolers and adolescents to divorce.

  • Family and Divorce Mediation
    Information on utilizing mediation as a method of negotiating during a divorce.

  • Familyonwards
    an advice and support site for all families. Over 100 articles on different family isues - marriage, divorce, domestic violence, second weddings, special needs and more. An ever expanding list of book reviews.

  • Family on Wards
    How has divorce affected your family? Are you a single parent?

  • Fathers Rights Survival Guide
    Non-profit family law legal assistance for mens problems, divorce, child support, custody, visitation, District Attorney license suspension, move-away cases, contempt, Father's Rights Survival Guide.

  • Flying Solo
    A site addressing topics relating to divorce and separation.

  • Grand Times
    An informative resource for grandparents addressing issues such as helping grandchildren through divorce, grandparent visitation rights and tips on making the grandkids' visit go smoothly

  • How to Divorce as Friends
    No matter how painful or destructive your relationship may be today, you have the ability to turn your situation around. You can end the conflict and restore the love, one human being to another.

  • Kids In the Middle
    Agency serving children whose parents are divorced or separated.

  • On Divorce
    An independent source of information, support, assistance and discussion on divorce in the UK.

  • Parenting After Divorce
    Information and help for child custody professionals and parents going through divorce.

  • Sandcastles Program
    The Sandcastles Program is a one session three and half hour group experience designed to assist minor children, ages 6-17, in dealing with their reaction to their parents' separation/divorce.

  • Shared Parenting Information Group
    Promoting responsible shared parenting after separation and divorce.

  • Single Again
    Single Again Magazine is published specifically for the divorced, separated or widowed, providing information for dealing with these changes and experiences.

  • Telling the Children You Are Getting Divorced
    Telling the children that you are going to get divorced can be a very difficult obstacle to overcome, but it is something that must be done in order for the children to begin to accept this dramatic change in their life. Research shows that children reared in an environment where there is tension will be more traumatized than a child reared in a divorced home, tension free enviroment. If children see parents constantly abusing each other, whether it be verbally or physically, the child will ultimately suffer. It is possible for children to thrive in a divorced home, provided they are under the right parental conditions. One of the first ways that a parent can help a child is by telling him or her about the divorce. Remember, children of all ages will be affected by their parent's divorce. Following are some tips on telling the children.

  • The Divorced Dads' Page
    A resource center for divorced fathers who want to remain a vital part of their children's lives.

  • TransParenting
    An Educational Seminar For Parents Concened About the Impact of Divorce and Their Children.


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